I don't wanna have a threesome... ever again!

You might be wondering about the title of this post... it's actually a line from a Melissa Etheridge song called "Threesome".

Anyway, just as a taste of the song here are the lyrics of the chorus

I don't wanna have a threesome
I don't wanna sleep with nobody else
I don't wanna be a swinger
I'd rather keep you all to myself!
I've got enough spice in this family life
I don't need an affair with a friend
I don't wanna have a threesome... ever again!

Now, if you read my previous post you will see that this post is about something that reminded me of my father.

One of the most disgusting things that Dad did was force my mother to prostitute herself for profit. If she refused to go he would beat her up! The agency he created (illegally) was called 'Lamplighter Agency'. I also believe he was grooming my sister and I to become employees (I was 10 at the time and my sister was 14).

Well, it was the 1970s and it was trendy to be a 'swinger'... having group sex and not-so-secret affairs with both women and men since he was bisexual. Guess it was a leftover from the hippie era that he and mom grew up in.

But it occurred to me today to wonder what would have happened if, in the process of his forcing her to have sex with other women, she had decided that she preferred women over men and left him. That would have been poetic justice! I laughed when that occurred to me. I mean, mom admits that even though she enjoyed it that it really wasn't 'her'! As it was she left him for one of the guys he made her go with.

Personally, I've never done anything risque like that... unless of course you count being a lesbian as risque! Nor do I ever want to do anything like that. Perhaps because I saw the results of that type of behavior.

It may surprise you that I show a conscience over something like that. Maybe you think I am immoral for being a lesbian and that other immoral behavior shouldn't be an issue because of that. But I believe that sex is very private and should be between two people who love one another and should be committed to one another to the exclusion of all others... no different to the heterosexual view is it? Shock, horror, I'm still human... and still capable of morality!